Ever fancied being lubed up with warm oil and sliding around with a crowd of similarly oily strangers? You will almost certainly enjoy this week’s guest blog! I’m delighted to welcome PJA Woode this week – he’s a fellow sex writer who contributes fabulous erotic fiction to the porn site FrolicMe, but today he’s here to share a real life experience. After listening to the interview with Tabitha Rayne in which she and I talked about craving stories written by men that show emotional vulnerability, he offered a story about overcoming his own feelings of shyness to attend his first liquid orgy. What follows is both sweet and deliciously slippery…

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John Lewis have released their ad, Tesco is full of chocolate advent calendars, and Russell Brand is off to jail. It must be Christmas! Time to show you all the gorgeous – and subtly smutty – card that Stuart has drawn this year, and explain how you can get one.

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Listen up, fans of interesting sex challenges. This week’s guest blogger has a kickass idea for you. He’s written some fabulous guest blogs here before, including a delightful piece about where he wears his wedding ring, what a prostate orgasm feels like, and his quest for the perfect butt plug. So I’m delighted to welcome him back today to mark the start of a fun sex challenge he’s set himself for the month of November. And no, it is definitely not the one you’re thinking of…

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I want what she’s having. Seriously, right now I would give (almost) anything for the type of sex LM describes in this piece. The ‘reset fuck’, which brings you back to yourself and drags you out of your own head… unngh. LM has written some gorgeous guest pieces here before, so click the links in the post to find some of them and check out more of her amazing work. In the meantime, enjoy this hot story about a reset fuck… I am so jealous right now.

Note this piece contains consensual kink and BDSM including spanking and using belts as harnesses around someone’s neck. Do not try this at home unless you know how to do it safely (i.e. without putting any pressure on their neck). 

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I’m dating again. Not with great gusto so far, and my most promising dating opportunities are ones that sit outside the swipe-focused stuff anyway. But I am having a go with a few different dating apps to see if there are any that don’t make me want to chuck my phone in the Thames. This time, I’m giving myself side quests to try and avoid the malaise that characterised my last go on this merry-go-round. The problem isn’t always down to other users, to be honest, although inevitably it’s annoying to be greeted with a bunch of likes and messages from guys who have clearly not looked at a single word of my profile, seeing only my pictures and thinking ‘eh, she’ll do‘ then firing off a lazy-ass ‘hey.’ The bigger problem these days is the rampant capitalist hellscape of apps that tempt you in with the promise of connection then demand you open your wallet if you want to actually talk. But still. We’re doing this. And part of ‘doing this’ in a way that makes it fun means allowing myself to write about the experience. That way, when aspects of the dating journey annoy me, rather than curl up and weep in a corner I can roll my eyes and remind myself that at least it’ll make good content. So. Here goes: four reasons I will instantly swipe left.

Note, as always, that like most of my other dating advice articles, this one is tediously straight. 

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